I never thought I'd say this, but it pays off to call some of the scariest people in my hood my "friends" (ok... this word might be pushing it...). The reason I give some of those guys even a second of my time is usually - plain and simple - fear. The fear of... what!??? Well... let's see. The other day I came home from work, but coudn't go my usual route, due to police blocking off the entire road. As I turned left to get around the obstruction, I caught a glimpse of a white sheet in the middle of the street, covering up a body. Now - I am not sure ifthat person got shot, stabbed or hit by a car, and frankly I don't care. All I know is that my behind will not be found in such an unfortunate position if I can halp it. So yes... I am a sissy, I own up to it, and that's the end of that tale.
On my way to buy cigarettes in the evening I might pass one of the "crack houses" and might be stopped by one of the guys asking me for a cig. And instead of saying "sorry... I don't have any", I say "I am getting some right now, and I'll give you one on my way back".
And so, one of my "friends" is a rather dangerous looking guy who works at the liquor store around the corner. He's got the whole nine yards... tatoos everywhere, a big scar running down his face from temple to mouth... the kind of guy who surely carries at least two weapons with him at all times. But - liking my beer as much as I do, and being a "regular" there, we greet each other by name, shake hands and are pretty much buddies.
Quick shift in story;
recently I have gone back to taking public transportation again. Maybe because it is getting warmer and I don't mind listening to my "gay- pod" for the hour the bus takes to go up to work. And in the morning it is no problem at all. The people at the bus stop are there for a reason and with the purpose of going to work. But the other day I had a "split shift"; meaning: I went to work from 9am - 11am (which I took the car for), and then had to go back to work at four, taking the bus. Now... at 3 pm the bus stop is another story. This time around you have all the crazy ones just "hanging" at the corner, looking at me like I am from Mars. It became clear very quickly that this was no place for little old me to be spending my time. Rowdy guys started a "play- fight", pushing each other closer and closer in my direction, kids looking at me up and down, whispering. I am sure it didn't help that I nervously played around with my $300 mp3 player or my BlackBerry. I finally reached the point where I thought: "I'll give this bus two more minutes before I go back home and take the damn car. Screw going green!!!" And just in that moment, the crowd on the street got quieter, and I notices how the loudest kids on the corner shut up and moved out of the way. From the distance I saw Will - my scary liquor store friend - walk down the street to work. I mea... people litteraly move out of the way to let him pass. And what does he do? He walks right up to my with his hand reaching out to me, said "wassup, ben (he thinks I'm ben... but who cares) how you doin'? good to see you!" and walked on. From that moment on I was the safest person in Trenton. Nobody blinked at me... not a peep!
Yayy... here's to victory and to the right kin of friends at thie right time!!!
Thursday, May 14, 2009
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
Lucky people...
I need to start this one with a little introduction.
As many people with basic history- knowledge might know, when at the end of WW2 the Americans got to Germany, German families had to clear out their spaces for the American soldiers to basically move in. That's also what happened to my grandfather, whose room became the temporary home of Bob - one of the soldiers. As strange as this situation might have been, Karl (my grandfather) and Bob remain friends to this day. Bob and his family live in Albany, and Karl calls him every other month, they write holiday cards back and forth, and keep a great long- distance- friendship. Many years ago (I was just born...) my grandparents actually visited them here in the States and had a great time. So - when I moved to NY over ten years ago, naturally my family kept telling me to get in touch with our friends in Albany. "Wouldn't it be great to stay in touch with friends of the family" that sort of thing.
And about a week ago I learned that one should always listen to parents' advice.
OK... Bob has a son who is married to a woman who didn't know what she should give her husband for their 17th anniversary. In the last minute she went to a little corner store and purchased a lottery ticket. And guess what!? They won 10 million Dollars!
First of all: Somewhere inside I always doubted the reality of lottery winners. We hear about them on TV, we might see one of those annoying photos of the winners carrying larger than life checks, but somehow I always felt it was all staged in order to make people buy the tickets. In that perspective it is kinda cool to KNOW that it is actually true!
The other thing is though that I consider myself a fairly lucky person. So - IF the winning of lottery- money was real, I thought that I might just be lucky enough to win one day (granted I would start playing...). But now I just see that chance fade away - isn't winning the lottery so rare that knowing a winner statistically means that I really can't win myself!?
And last, but not least: Why did I not listen?????? I can't just start calling them NOW!!! "Hey guys... I am Karl's grandson; what's up? I've been trying to reach you for ten years, but your phone has always been busy...!?"
As many people with basic history- knowledge might know, when at the end of WW2 the Americans got to Germany, German families had to clear out their spaces for the American soldiers to basically move in. That's also what happened to my grandfather, whose room became the temporary home of Bob - one of the soldiers. As strange as this situation might have been, Karl (my grandfather) and Bob remain friends to this day. Bob and his family live in Albany, and Karl calls him every other month, they write holiday cards back and forth, and keep a great long- distance- friendship. Many years ago (I was just born...) my grandparents actually visited them here in the States and had a great time. So - when I moved to NY over ten years ago, naturally my family kept telling me to get in touch with our friends in Albany. "Wouldn't it be great to stay in touch with friends of the family" that sort of thing.
And about a week ago I learned that one should always listen to parents' advice.
OK... Bob has a son who is married to a woman who didn't know what she should give her husband for their 17th anniversary. In the last minute she went to a little corner store and purchased a lottery ticket. And guess what!? They won 10 million Dollars!
First of all: Somewhere inside I always doubted the reality of lottery winners. We hear about them on TV, we might see one of those annoying photos of the winners carrying larger than life checks, but somehow I always felt it was all staged in order to make people buy the tickets. In that perspective it is kinda cool to KNOW that it is actually true!
The other thing is though that I consider myself a fairly lucky person. So - IF the winning of lottery- money was real, I thought that I might just be lucky enough to win one day (granted I would start playing...). But now I just see that chance fade away - isn't winning the lottery so rare that knowing a winner statistically means that I really can't win myself!?
And last, but not least: Why did I not listen?????? I can't just start calling them NOW!!! "Hey guys... I am Karl's grandson; what's up? I've been trying to reach you for ten years, but your phone has always been busy...!?"
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
A glass of (Trenton) water, please
When a while ago the "Trenton makes- the world takes" sign was repaired - or replaced (?) - I had this brief moment of thinking: What exactly does Trenton make these days? I even wondered if Trenton at least made the sign stating that "Trenton makes" whatever it supposedly makes. Personally, I am only familiar with the very cool ANA candle place, where Manolo and I go once a year to stock up on mood- lighting, but other than that I simply cannot come up with anything else that is actually made here. So when I got wind of Trenton selling Trenton Water, it got me a little worried; assuming that this might - in fact - be the only thing left in this town that actually brings money TO the town.
So - last night my friend Christine took me to a meeting to fight the sale of Trenton Water, and I have to say that I was very impressed. I am not gonna lie...: I was certainly not an ACTIVE participant for several reasons. 1 - as a foreigner I cannot sign any petitions. 2 - there was a lot of talk about political insight I simply don't have. 3 - I enjoyed just listening in, learning and trying to understand what the hell is going on. And honestly; I walked out of the meeting STILL not fully understanding what exactly it is our dear Mayor has in store for "his" (oh wait... isn't it OUR???) city. Let me just put it in my words - the way I understood it:
Farmer X owns a large potato field that grows enough potatoes to feed his entire family. In fact - the field had been in his family for generations, and has fed the family for centuries. One day farmer X wakes up and decides that he wants to sell his potato field. Maybe the thought of quick profit lured him into this plan... or maybe he is secretly planning on leaving the farm and the family, and wants to make a buck to take with him. Either way, he made up his mind and he announces his plan at the dinner table. The family takes some time to think, but questions quickly arise: Once we don't own the field anymore, how much are we gonna have to pay for the same damn potato we used to just pick off the field? Since the potato field is virtually the family's only source of income, how can that income be replaced? How much is the future owner really paying, and where is that money going to? What brought all this up in the first place? What would George Washington say about the complete downfall of the very field HE once fought a historic battle on? (I am getting carried away...). And while the farmer has never been a great leader of the family to begin with, the fact that he doesn't answer any of those questions only deepens the family's dislike of him. They get together in a chamber up above the dining room, try desperately to fight for the good and the future of the family, feel lied to, misguided and ignored by the very person who should only have the family's best interest at heart.
Now - please feel free to educate me if my understanding of the situation is incorrect. And if you do, I would appreciate if you did so by using my rather artistic potato- scenario. It somehow makes more sense to me than water. But also:
As a none- American, all I can do is sit through a meeting, show my support and write my little blog. But YOU guys out there actually have a say in this situation. This is a country led by its residents and by caring, everyday people who know what is right and wrong. Thanks to all the people who are getting together to fight for US, to all the people who are standing up for Trenton by speaking out or by simply putting their names on a piece of paper. I encourage everybody to go out there, sign what needs to be signed, say what needs to be said and do what needs to be done in order for us to enjoy our own potatoes from our own field.
So - last night my friend Christine took me to a meeting to fight the sale of Trenton Water, and I have to say that I was very impressed. I am not gonna lie...: I was certainly not an ACTIVE participant for several reasons. 1 - as a foreigner I cannot sign any petitions. 2 - there was a lot of talk about political insight I simply don't have. 3 - I enjoyed just listening in, learning and trying to understand what the hell is going on. And honestly; I walked out of the meeting STILL not fully understanding what exactly it is our dear Mayor has in store for "his" (oh wait... isn't it OUR???) city. Let me just put it in my words - the way I understood it:
Farmer X owns a large potato field that grows enough potatoes to feed his entire family. In fact - the field had been in his family for generations, and has fed the family for centuries. One day farmer X wakes up and decides that he wants to sell his potato field. Maybe the thought of quick profit lured him into this plan... or maybe he is secretly planning on leaving the farm and the family, and wants to make a buck to take with him. Either way, he made up his mind and he announces his plan at the dinner table. The family takes some time to think, but questions quickly arise: Once we don't own the field anymore, how much are we gonna have to pay for the same damn potato we used to just pick off the field? Since the potato field is virtually the family's only source of income, how can that income be replaced? How much is the future owner really paying, and where is that money going to? What brought all this up in the first place? What would George Washington say about the complete downfall of the very field HE once fought a historic battle on? (I am getting carried away...). And while the farmer has never been a great leader of the family to begin with, the fact that he doesn't answer any of those questions only deepens the family's dislike of him. They get together in a chamber up above the dining room, try desperately to fight for the good and the future of the family, feel lied to, misguided and ignored by the very person who should only have the family's best interest at heart.
Now - please feel free to educate me if my understanding of the situation is incorrect. And if you do, I would appreciate if you did so by using my rather artistic potato- scenario. It somehow makes more sense to me than water. But also:
As a none- American, all I can do is sit through a meeting, show my support and write my little blog. But YOU guys out there actually have a say in this situation. This is a country led by its residents and by caring, everyday people who know what is right and wrong. Thanks to all the people who are getting together to fight for US, to all the people who are standing up for Trenton by speaking out or by simply putting their names on a piece of paper. I encourage everybody to go out there, sign what needs to be signed, say what needs to be said and do what needs to be done in order for us to enjoy our own potatoes from our own field.
Tuesday, March 3, 2009
Poor dog...
The most exciting thing that has been happening in my life in the past months is most certainly my job. It is what I obviously spend most of my time with, and what occupies my mind even when I get home in the evening. And even though I have been working in this new field for over eight months now, moving around in a field that is not 100% familiar is extremely tiring. It reminds me a bit of the time when I first moved to the states, and how just speaking english all day would tire me out. Every word I said would have to be translated in my head and thought through before being released, which was a lot more work than just blabbing something out.
Anyway - bottom line, I come home from work at night and I am pooped;... happy, but pooped.
So, the other evening was just another on of those days where I basically crashed on the sofa as soon as I came back home, while doing a "Nip- Tuck" marathon (which - we just got into and is a GREAT show!!!) Here I was, dosing off, when Kitry decited that it was time for her to visit the back yard. Half asleep I followed her to the door, opened it and let her and Fiby out. Kitry generally only goes out to do her thing - Fiby, on the other hand, LOVES to spend time there. She is in and out of the bushes, hunts for squirrels, birds and cats, runs, leaps and barks as her heart desires. After a few minutes both were back at the door, but when I opened it to let them back inside, Fiby realized that there might be more animals to hang out with and ran back into the greenery. I'm gonna be honest... I was mad. I was tired, wanted to go back to my beloved sofa, cover up and pass out. I as around 11PM, and I was not in the mood to be reminded of how useless our training was when calling "come here", which only causes her to look over her shoulder at best. I closed the door with the words "then stay outside, you little tramp" (which is her nickname) and went back to the living room. On my way there I told myself to let Manolo know that our little one is still outside, but at my state of exhaustion I must have forgotten by the time I was back on the couch.
So - about an hour and a half later I woke up from Manolo laughing like a crazy person, and here is his side of the story.
In our neighborhood it is quite common to hear dogs bark; too many irresponsible dog-owners who let their dogs run free at all hours of the day and night. So - for the fist 15 minutes he was not too concerned when this poor dog started barking at half past eleven. Half an hour into the noise he started getting a little irritated, and when the barking wouldn't let up an hour later he started losing it. "The poor dog... damn those dog owners... idiot neighbors..." Another ten minutes later he went online to find the number for animal control - knowing that there is this particular little dog around the corner that is in desperate need of help. Finally - as he was scrambling around to act on behalf of the poor little pooch that must be freezing cold, possibly hungry and certainly not supposed to be outside, he realized that THAT poor little dog was Fiby.
The little thing was on the back steps FOREVER, trying to get our attention, while I was sleeping like an angel and Manolo was about to call animal control... ON US.
In any case... I have always heard about stories of parents accidently leaving their kids at home, or driving off a supermarket parking lot whithout their child... and I have found a new understanding for it. The mind is an amazing thing - a thing that does not work worth a damn if you're tired.
But I made up for it... sort of; Fiby and I spent the rest of the evening cuddled up on the sofa, wrapped in blankets. She also doesn't run away anymore when I open the door to let her back inside, which is a safe thing to do. But the guilt of neglecting a child is deep, and I have never felt less like a fit parent. No cookie, no toy and no belly-rub can let me live down the fact that I left my daughter outside in the winter in the middle of the night.
Anyway - bottom line, I come home from work at night and I am pooped;... happy, but pooped.
So, the other evening was just another on of those days where I basically crashed on the sofa as soon as I came back home, while doing a "Nip- Tuck" marathon (which - we just got into and is a GREAT show!!!) Here I was, dosing off, when Kitry decited that it was time for her to visit the back yard. Half asleep I followed her to the door, opened it and let her and Fiby out. Kitry generally only goes out to do her thing - Fiby, on the other hand, LOVES to spend time there. She is in and out of the bushes, hunts for squirrels, birds and cats, runs, leaps and barks as her heart desires. After a few minutes both were back at the door, but when I opened it to let them back inside, Fiby realized that there might be more animals to hang out with and ran back into the greenery. I'm gonna be honest... I was mad. I was tired, wanted to go back to my beloved sofa, cover up and pass out. I as around 11PM, and I was not in the mood to be reminded of how useless our training was when calling "come here", which only causes her to look over her shoulder at best. I closed the door with the words "then stay outside, you little tramp" (which is her nickname) and went back to the living room. On my way there I told myself to let Manolo know that our little one is still outside, but at my state of exhaustion I must have forgotten by the time I was back on the couch.
So - about an hour and a half later I woke up from Manolo laughing like a crazy person, and here is his side of the story.
In our neighborhood it is quite common to hear dogs bark; too many irresponsible dog-owners who let their dogs run free at all hours of the day and night. So - for the fist 15 minutes he was not too concerned when this poor dog started barking at half past eleven. Half an hour into the noise he started getting a little irritated, and when the barking wouldn't let up an hour later he started losing it. "The poor dog... damn those dog owners... idiot neighbors..." Another ten minutes later he went online to find the number for animal control - knowing that there is this particular little dog around the corner that is in desperate need of help. Finally - as he was scrambling around to act on behalf of the poor little pooch that must be freezing cold, possibly hungry and certainly not supposed to be outside, he realized that THAT poor little dog was Fiby.
The little thing was on the back steps FOREVER, trying to get our attention, while I was sleeping like an angel and Manolo was about to call animal control... ON US.
In any case... I have always heard about stories of parents accidently leaving their kids at home, or driving off a supermarket parking lot whithout their child... and I have found a new understanding for it. The mind is an amazing thing - a thing that does not work worth a damn if you're tired.
But I made up for it... sort of; Fiby and I spent the rest of the evening cuddled up on the sofa, wrapped in blankets. She also doesn't run away anymore when I open the door to let her back inside, which is a safe thing to do. But the guilt of neglecting a child is deep, and I have never felt less like a fit parent. No cookie, no toy and no belly-rub can let me live down the fact that I left my daughter outside in the winter in the middle of the night.
Saturday, January 24, 2009
A television event worth mentioning
Let me start by saying this: I don't care if you are female or male, gay or straight (or anything in between), young or old. If you missed Saturday's premiere of the Lifetime movie "Prayers for Bobby", WATCH IT AS SOON AS YOU CAN!!! I am not saying this to promote a tear jerker, but because it is an amazing story about an inspirational journey that provides insight into the lives of - god knows how many - families out there.
I am very critical of "gay" things, and am generally tired of gay movies that reflect only the negative sides of our lives. AIDS, rejection, hatred, discrimination. For the most part I just wonder why nobody makes a gay film about a happy couple, or about a great relationship with ups and downs - basically a movie that could apply to the average straight couple just as well. Or I would love to see a gay couple in a commercial for some random household item. Just to be shown in a "normal" situation; but as long as we show only the "ab-normal" sides of it, we really can't expect others to look past them.
That being said, this latest movie made me think. It is damn easy for me to say "just give me something "normal"", when the sad reality is that AIDS, rejection, hatred and discrimination are things that a lot of people out there have to deal with on a daily basis. I might not face those issues in my life, but we know that a large number of people are not that lucky. And if a movie like the one just shown can make even ONE un-accepting parent think, or ONE catholic question the bible, or make ONE gay man or lesbian woman decide not to jump off that bridge, than we moved yet another step in the right direction.
So - get a bottle of wine, some cubes of cheese, crackers and grapes and tissues and turn on "Lifetime." If they play it on weekdays at nine, you can just stay tuned, go right into "Will and Grace" at eleven and have an entirely GAY evening!!!
The Lady at PetCo... or: Can we just be nice???
The day before yesterday was another big day in the life of our Baby Fiby. Yes... she had a bath. But not just any old bath! She was actually bathed with "Head and shoulders"; not only because she is worth it, but mainly because we ran out of dog shampoo. Bathing her is not a big deal... but the blow drying is a 1.5 hour fight where my little ball of fur mutates into a pit bull without mercy. This time she actually fought me until she suddenly passed out, her body colapsing like limp asparagus (a NY reviewer used those words once to discribe me in something I danced a few years back...). I had to stop the process, shake her until she came to, and celebrated her life while holding back tears. Needless to say - the girl went through a near death experince, and I felt like having her with me every second for the rest of the day.
I had to get dog food later on, and took her with me; "girls' day out". She was still quite exhausted from the horror I made her go through, but she looked amazing and smelled better than the everage person!
We first stopped by West Elm (where - by the way - I will start my official Management Training in February), and where Fiby is always a welcome guest. She feels pretty much at home there; or maybe she is just confused as to how half our stuff from the house suddenly appears in this strange place. "Did we move???"
Anyway; next stop: PetCo. We walked through the isles while I picked up what we needed, and Fiby pulled me towards whereve her nose led her. Just before getting to the register, a Lady with he little dog stopped for our babies to "say hello". As the girls did their thing, the woman asked me what kind of dog Fiby is. I told her she is a Shih- tzu.
"Hmmmm..." the woman said. Then again: "Hmmm". Pause.
"My friend has a Shih- tzu... she looks different though. I guess it is because she keeps her well groomed."
First of all; I realy don't care about your friend (although; judging by your manners I am quite frankly surprised you HAVE a friend), her dog, her grooming habits or what you are guessing. Secondly - Fiby had been through enough that day, and certainly didn't need to have insult added to injury. And thirdly:
"She actually just had a bath, and probably smells better than you" - I said, pulled the leash ever so gently and proceeded to the check out.
Remember the line from "Bambi"...!? "If you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all"!? Isn't that something to think about?
I find it interesting how we always look for change and hope for things to get better. We want the war to end, we want the economy to ge back on track, we want gas prices to come down, we want crimes to stop... and for everything we WANT, we look to find somebody to fix it. The police, government, Obama (and may I say: God bless America! Congratulations, thank you, Oh say can you see by the dawn's early light, Mary, Jesus and all the saints). But can't we stop to think for a second that it is not only those BIG things that make life better or worse. There are small things we all can do to make ourselves and others a little happier, a little safer and our daily lives in general a little more pleasant. But pointing ingers at all that is wrong, while walking around being mean, negative, zynic and in a bad mood is simply hypocritical.
On that noe, I will make it my goal for today to just be nice.
I had to get dog food later on, and took her with me; "girls' day out". She was still quite exhausted from the horror I made her go through, but she looked amazing and smelled better than the everage person!
We first stopped by West Elm (where - by the way - I will start my official Management Training in February), and where Fiby is always a welcome guest. She feels pretty much at home there; or maybe she is just confused as to how half our stuff from the house suddenly appears in this strange place. "Did we move???"
Anyway; next stop: PetCo. We walked through the isles while I picked up what we needed, and Fiby pulled me towards whereve her nose led her. Just before getting to the register, a Lady with he little dog stopped for our babies to "say hello". As the girls did their thing, the woman asked me what kind of dog Fiby is. I told her she is a Shih- tzu.
"Hmmmm..." the woman said. Then again: "Hmmm". Pause.
"My friend has a Shih- tzu... she looks different though. I guess it is because she keeps her well groomed."
First of all; I realy don't care about your friend (although; judging by your manners I am quite frankly surprised you HAVE a friend), her dog, her grooming habits or what you are guessing. Secondly - Fiby had been through enough that day, and certainly didn't need to have insult added to injury. And thirdly:
"She actually just had a bath, and probably smells better than you" - I said, pulled the leash ever so gently and proceeded to the check out.
Remember the line from "Bambi"...!? "If you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all"!? Isn't that something to think about?
I find it interesting how we always look for change and hope for things to get better. We want the war to end, we want the economy to ge back on track, we want gas prices to come down, we want crimes to stop... and for everything we WANT, we look to find somebody to fix it. The police, government, Obama (and may I say: God bless America! Congratulations, thank you, Oh say can you see by the dawn's early light, Mary, Jesus and all the saints). But can't we stop to think for a second that it is not only those BIG things that make life better or worse. There are small things we all can do to make ourselves and others a little happier, a little safer and our daily lives in general a little more pleasant. But pointing ingers at all that is wrong, while walking around being mean, negative, zynic and in a bad mood is simply hypocritical.
On that noe, I will make it my goal for today to just be nice.
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
Another gray day
I am fully back, have been working all week since I got home, and I think it's time for a day off.
I am still thinking about how the week in Germany went; sadly, I didn't get to spend much time with my family. But boy... was I on a schedule! The day I arrived, I went to see my little cousin's soccer game (yes... me... at a soccer field). I even cheered and everything; well... at some point I think I accidentally cheered for the wrong team. But hey... I was there, I showed enthusiasm and I did what I could.
I guess what amazes me about family is that no matter how far away they are and how little time we get to spend together, they are always there with support and love. There is also no such thing as a time periode to re-connect. Oh no... we start right where we left off a year ago, which is fun. Also - having left home when I was really a kid, I somehow never stop being this kid. Here I am... 6000 miles from home, living my own life, making my own decisions... and as soon as I get home for just a few days I get to hear all about the "smoking" and the "staying up late", as if I could be re-molded in 72 hours.
Parents never stop being parents, and there is something very comforting about that thought.
I also took up knitting. First it was socks... but then I started a sweater a few weeks ago. Of course... I only know how to knit in one straight line, and it occured to me at some poin that I will need help. So - going to Germany, where my grandma is the knitting- queen came at a great time. I showed her my "work", and asked her to talk me through the process of decreasing for the arm pits and the neck line. She said I didn't knit enough yet, and that she would just add a few rows before getting to the part I needed help with. Next thing I know... she finished the whole front of it in one evening while I was in Stuttgart. Well... I now have one half done, but still have no clue how to do the actual job once I knit the back. She meant well, and I will forever cherrish the sweater; if I ever finish it.
Other than that, I have just been working a lot, trying to ignore the cold. But I somehow am in holiday spirits this year, and think it'll be a fun season. We'll see.
The babies are doing great; Fiby is sitting on the back of the sofa, looking out into the back yard. She is the sweetest thing in the world, but she has absolutely no manners. Poor Kitry has to put up with her all day - I think I wanna get a nanny cam. I really want to know what these two Ladies are doing all day when we are at work.
Anyway; just another gray day in Trenton.
I am still thinking about how the week in Germany went; sadly, I didn't get to spend much time with my family. But boy... was I on a schedule! The day I arrived, I went to see my little cousin's soccer game (yes... me... at a soccer field). I even cheered and everything; well... at some point I think I accidentally cheered for the wrong team. But hey... I was there, I showed enthusiasm and I did what I could.
I guess what amazes me about family is that no matter how far away they are and how little time we get to spend together, they are always there with support and love. There is also no such thing as a time periode to re-connect. Oh no... we start right where we left off a year ago, which is fun. Also - having left home when I was really a kid, I somehow never stop being this kid. Here I am... 6000 miles from home, living my own life, making my own decisions... and as soon as I get home for just a few days I get to hear all about the "smoking" and the "staying up late", as if I could be re-molded in 72 hours.
Parents never stop being parents, and there is something very comforting about that thought.
I also took up knitting. First it was socks... but then I started a sweater a few weeks ago. Of course... I only know how to knit in one straight line, and it occured to me at some poin that I will need help. So - going to Germany, where my grandma is the knitting- queen came at a great time. I showed her my "work", and asked her to talk me through the process of decreasing for the arm pits and the neck line. She said I didn't knit enough yet, and that she would just add a few rows before getting to the part I needed help with. Next thing I know... she finished the whole front of it in one evening while I was in Stuttgart. Well... I now have one half done, but still have no clue how to do the actual job once I knit the back. She meant well, and I will forever cherrish the sweater; if I ever finish it.
Other than that, I have just been working a lot, trying to ignore the cold. But I somehow am in holiday spirits this year, and think it'll be a fun season. We'll see.
The babies are doing great; Fiby is sitting on the back of the sofa, looking out into the back yard. She is the sweetest thing in the world, but she has absolutely no manners. Poor Kitry has to put up with her all day - I think I wanna get a nanny cam. I really want to know what these two Ladies are doing all day when we are at work.
Anyway; just another gray day in Trenton.
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